Okay, I hate to be that person. You know, the one who marks every single little event, meticulously counting the days, weeks, and months in a relationship. The one who practically lives by a celestial calendar of personal milestones. But, here’s the unvarnished truth: I genuinely can’t help it when it comes to Matthew, my favorite human. Today, my friends, marks our 6-month anniversary! And honestly, every fiber of my being is vibrating with joy and profound gratitude.
I’ve finally found my person, the one I never truly believed I’d encounter. For so long, my romantic landscape was a vast, often challenging, terrain—marked by past heartbreaks, the pervasive “Peter Pan syndrome” of the dating world, and the quiet acceptance that perhaps true, deep, reciprocal love just wasn’t in my cards. But Matthew arrived, and he has effortlessly shifted my entire personal atmosphere. He makes me smile every single day, even on the toughest mornings with my medication. He lifts me up when I need strength, his presence a constant source of calm and resilience. He holds me tight when I cry, offering a safe harbor in any emotional storm. And he brings laughter exactly when I need it, his quick wit and genuine humor cutting through any lingering shadows. He’s literally everything I’ve been waiting for, and I’m still pinching myself that this is real. This milestone, this feeling, is a truly magnificent bloom.
Celebrating Milestones: To Mark or Not to Mark?
This personal joy leads me to a broader question: to celebrate milestones, or not to celebrate? In a world that often encourages us to rush from one moment to the next, to only acknowledge the grand, monumental achievements, the quiet marking of smaller anniversaries, of personal victories, can sometimes feel… excessive. Or performative. But I’ve come to believe that celebrating these smaller moments, these incremental steps in a journey, is not just permissible—it’s vital.
- Acknowledge the Journey: Life is a series of moments. Overlooking the smaller victories, the incremental growth, the quiet joys, means missing much of the journey itself. Each milestone, whether it’s a six-month anniversary or a year of sobriety, is a testament to perseverance, effort, and commitment. It’s a moment to pause, reflect, and appreciate how far you’ve come.
- Reinforce Connection: For relationships, marking milestones is a powerful act of reinforcement. It’s a conscious decision to acknowledge the time, effort, and love invested. It’s a way of saying, “This matters. You matter. We matter.” In a world where genuine connection can be fragile, these acknowledgments solidify the bond, like strengthening the foundation of a shared home.
- Counterbalance the Challenges: Life inevitably throws its curveballs. Milestones provide a crucial counterbalance to the tougher times. They remind you of the strength you’ve built, the joy you’ve shared, and the love that endures, helping to dispel any lingering clouds of doubt. They offer moments of collective appreciation.
- Personal Gratitude: For me, these celebrations are deeply personal acts of gratitude. They are opportunities to genuinely thank Matthew for the immense light he brings into my life, for his unwavering support during my ongoing health journey, and for simply being the incredible man he is.
So, yes, I am absolutely that person who will celebrate every milestone, big or small. Because every moment of joy, especially hard-won joy, deserves to be acknowledged and cherished.
Reliving the Magic: Six Flags, San Antonio, and Our Expanding Horizon
To celebrate our half-year mark, we decided to relive the magic of our very first real date. Our first adventure was a thrilling day at Six Flags in Dallas. So, for our six-month celebration, we opted to hit up Fiesta Texas in San Antonio instead.
It was, to say the least, an interesting day, but in the very best way. San Antonio, with its unique blend of rich history, vibrant culture, and theme park thrills, provided the perfect backdrop for our celebration. We embraced the spirit of the park, riding countless rollercoasters, laughing until our sides ached, and reveling in the shared exhilaration. From the dizzying heights to the stomach-dropping plunges, every scream was punctuated by laughter and shared glances.
Honestly, anything we do together is amazing. Matthew brings an ease, a joy, and a genuine adventurous spirit that transforms even the simplest outing into something memorable. His presence makes every experience brighter, every laugh louder, and every moment feel perfectly right. It’s a testament to the profound connection we share, where mutual happiness is the defining characteristic of our shared atmosphere.
This celebration wasn’t just about the theme park rides; it was about honoring the journey we’ve been on, acknowledging the love that has blossomed, and affirming the profound joy of finding my person. These past six months have truly been the best six months of my life, filled with a level of happiness and fulfillment I once thought unattainable.
Here’s to the best 6 months of my life, my #MyPerson, the radiant force that is #TheSun in my personal orbit. Here’s to #SixMonthsSixFlags and to #ForeverToGo. I am immensely grateful for this incredible chapter, and I look forward to countless more milestones, countless more adventures, and an ever-expanding horizon of shared joy with Matthew. My heart is full, and the future is bright.